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कहाँ है वह बिना बात के हँसना, और कहाँ है वह बिना बात के रोना... 
कहाँ है वह छुपना और छुपाना, और कहाँ है वह दोस्तों को पकड़ना... 
कहाँ है वह लड़ना और कहाँ है वह रूठना और मानना... 
कहाँ है वह माँ की गोद में सोना, और कहाँ है वह पापा के साथ घूमना... 

कहाँ है वह रंगो में डूबना, और कहाँ है वह पतंगे उड़ाना... 
कहाँ है वह सर्दी की धूप, और कहाँ है वह बारिश में भीगना... 
कहाँ है वह किरणों को मुठ्ठी में पकड़ना, और कहाँ है वह बुलबुले उड़ाना... 
कहाँ है वह छोटी सी गुड़िया, और कहाँ है वह क्रिकेट का बल्ला... 

कहाँ है वह साइकिल चलना, और कहाँ है वह गिर कर फिर से उठना... 
कहाँ है वह कैरम की रानी, और कहाँ है वह चैस का राजा... 
कहाँ है वह पत्तों का गुलाम, और कहाँ है वह सीढ़ी और साप... 
कहाँ है वह सच्ची सी ख़ुशी, और कहाँ है वह बचपन... 

मुड़ कर जो देखा मैंने, तो देखा अपने साये को... 
कह रहा था मुझसे, माँ-पा... कभी तो संग मेरे चलो... 
हँसकर बिताया वक़्त मैंने अपनी ही ज़िन्दगी के साथ... 
तब आया समझमें की बचपन अब भी है मेरे ही साथ... 

ज़िंदा है आज भी मुझमें, एक बच्चा कहीं पर... 
यहाँ ही है वह सच्ची सी ख़ुशी, और यहीं है वह बचपन... 
जाता ही नहीं वह कभी हमें छोड़ कर, झाँक कर देखो अपने दिल के अंदर... 
यहाँ ही है वह सच्ची सी ख़ुशी, और यहीं है वह बचपन... ad



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This Bhajan (a prayerful song) Gyan Garibi of Sant Kabir (Sage Kabir) is about the realization that the soul and the Supreme Being are one and demonstrate the use of that Self Realization in life. It is observed that a Gyani (a knowledgeable person) is fearful of getting arrogance of egoism and a Yogi (an ascetic) is fearful of emancipation from his supernatural spiritual powers. To overcome from these fears Sant Kabir has used and explained the word Gyan Garibi (Awareness with fairness).

Gyan garibi saachi santo,
Gyan garibi saachi,
Bin samjya sadhu hoi betha,
Hridiye handi kachi re –

If self realization comes with the politeness in the nature of a person then it’s called true ‘Awareness with fairness’. Without understanding this fact if someone has became a Sage then it’s like filling the water in an unbaked big vessel of mud.

Bhekh liya pan bhed na jaanya,
Bel fare jem ghaani,
Satya shabd ka marm na ladhya,
Puje pathra pani re –

By just covering the body with a shawl like sage one cannot apart self from the fascination of the life. Such person will keep walking in a circle on the path of self realization like a bullock walking in an oil-mill. One needs to chant the name of God at every breath to know the mystery and open the innermost seed of the word ‘Truth’. And after achieving such stage one will stop worshiping a piece of stone and water.

Sundar bhekh banyo ati laala
Upar rang lagaya,
Kachi handi gal gai maati
Virle nir jamaya re –

An unbaked mud vessel can look good by applying colors on it; but without giving appropriate heat, that vessel of mud is of no use. In the same way one can appear attractive by applying makeup (or wearing mask of humanity) before the performance but without self-penance one cannot attain spiritual knowledge. And only an exceptional individual can collect water of truth by creating a perfect mud vessel.

Karda taap diye to bagde,
Kachi kaam na aave,
Samta taap diye to sudhre,
Jatan kari ne paave re –

An unbaked vessel of mud is of no use and overheating the vessel is also the destructing way. Giving equivalent heat to each side of mud vessel will give it strength and with careful mold one can create a useful vessel. By the illustration of mud vessel Sant Kabir has explained that creating a false image of self is of no use and in the same way being greedy for any kind of achievement is also a wrong way. To achieve the life’s spirit (true awareness of self) one need to continuously keep trying with full concentration, patience and fairness.

Bhekh lai mukh meetha bole,
Sab ku sheesh namave,
Kahe ‘Kabir’ samaj paarakh bin
Hero haath na aave re –

Wearing a mask of humanity and talking simulated sweet language are just wrecked words without any deep understanding & evaluation. Says ‘Kabir’ without wisdom and self realization connecting with Supreme Being (God) is not possible.

Knowledge brings power and if power not handled fairly; it can bring arrogance. And with such state a mind one will keep walking in a life cycle like a bullock of oil-mill. Through this prayer Gyan Garibi - Sant Kabir explains to become wise & fair enough to get the self realization. And to achieve such state in life one need to chant the name of God with every breath to get connected with Supreme Being… ad

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At the time of Summer Vacation, my Son was really very busy in playing with his friends for all the day long. Many times I had observed all the children playing outside and inside my home. These kids find the different kinds of games every day. They always play differently with the same toys and whatever things they have. They always find something to play, which we might have considered as garbage. They create something from the waste materials and enjoy themselves. They even can enjoy without having anything.

And suppose the children are more in numbers and start playing as a team, first of all they plan what and how they are going to play. They spend maximum of the time in discussing game rules and roles for the each individual. Most of the time while discussing the game and defining the roles they have lots and lots of disagreements and disappointments with each other. But somehow they come out with the solutions from these arguments and have the final conclusion about how they are going to play, what roles need to be performed during the game and at which stage the roles are going to swap. They even discuss & confirm how they are going to feel and what they are going to say during the game. Everything they decide before initiating the game and later on the game starts and finishes very smoothly. We can say they visualize what is going to happen in their game and finally they make it happen in reality.

In between the game some children need a reminder about the game rules, but that problem gets solved very easily because they remind each other without any kind of hesitation, frustration and self ego. They don’t hesitate to ask questions to each other and elders too. They learn, help and also share their knowledge with each other. In fact, they feel proud if they could explain something to others.

Many times they imitate like a Super Hero and act exactly the same. In showing the bravery or we can say doing the stunts they fell down and even hurt themselves. But after a little break of sometime in crying & getting pampered by their moms the game restarts with more enthusiasm. They again behave with the bravery and try the same difficulty level of the game. And after coming out from their fears, for which they might have also got hurt, they celebrate their happiness of achievement. And at the end of the day they have stories of their own bravery & happiness to share with the friends & family members. And again the very next day; a different game ends with a different story. Wow!!! The children are always the most inspiring source for the life.

By observing these playful activities of the children, I feel like – Let’s consider the life as a game and play it like a child… ad

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Prayer is Feeling Silence, Prayer is Listening Heart;
Prayer is Being True, Prayer is Loving Through…

Prayer is Helping Hands, Prayer is Giving Strength;
Prayer is Spreading Smiles, Prayer is Behaving Kind…

Prayer is Sharing Food, Prayer is Thinking Good;
Prayer is Serving Needy, Prayer is Nurturing Life…

Prayer is Saving Water, Prayer is Planting Trees;
Prayer is Blooming Hope, Prayer is Crafting Scope…

Prayer is Moving Ahead, Prayer is Forgiving Past;
Prayer is Dropping Ego, Prayer is Applying - Let Go…

Prayer is Finding Light, Prayer is Lightening Dark;
Prayer is Holding Faith, Prayer is Working Hard…

Prayer is Aiming High, Prayer is Standing Ground;
Prayer is Powering Skills, Prayer is Living the Dream…

Prayer is Following Wise, Prayer is Guiding Path;
Prayer is Speaking Truth, Prayer is Shining Bright…

Prayer is Getting Still, Prayer is Practicing Peace;
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Whenever I hear a word ‘Doctor’, some additional words related to this profession automatically start floating in my mind like Sincere, Knowledgeable, Hard working, Rich and the most important one ‘BUSY’ with their tight schedule in serving the world. In this competitive world, it’s not like that the only Doctors are being busy. Nowadays almost all professionals of each field are being busy with their working life.

I have seen a few and even heard a lot about people talking and facing problems in balancing the professional and family life. In such scenario to spend a lonely time for self and maintain a hobby is quite difficult. Most of the professionals with their long working hours cannot give few minutes a day to read their favorite book. There are so many who cannot give time to their family; not even on weekends. And almost large amount of professionals has forgotten what their hobby was!!! And that’s why I felt the need to share the Tale of Grit of Dr. Pankaj Maheria.

Dr. Pankaj Maheria is an Anatomist and he teaches Anatomy at GMERS Medical College, Patan, Gujarat. Dr. Pankaj is also having his daily duties of taking lectures and being a Medical Professor he always keeps himself updated with the topics of his teachings. To update his knowledge, he regularly studies the advance book editions, publications and also refer subjects on the internet. So like all other professionals he is also busy with his daily working hours and learning part of his working life. But the Tale of Grit is – he is capable to spare some healthy time with his family and can preserve his hobby of Bird Photography on DAILY BASIS!

When I met Dr. Pankaj for the first time the experience was quite different. He is sincere, knowledgeable and hardworking doctor in his professional life, but as a person I found him very simple, cool and fun loving person. Dr. Pankaj Maheria and his wife both are nature loving people. Their hobby of bird watching made them close to each other and they got married. Generally, it happens to all the couples that after some time of getting married everyone forget to give priority to the family life & finds shortage of time for self. Usually people give more preference to the financial stability for Life. But the Tale of Grit is even after getting married Dr. Pankaj Maheria has continued his passion towards his hobby and giving first priority to his family.

Initially, Dr. Pankaj and his family have spent a lot of time in silence, watching the birds at Thol Lake. Later on they bought a binocular to watch the birds and after getting financial stability they have got the professional camera to click the bird movements. Till now they have visited almost all the National Parks and Wildlife Sanctuaries of Gujarat, India. And now they are planning to visit the Sanctuaries of other states of India and in future different parts of the World too. Visiting the different places and making trips for the Bird Photography with family provides them extra hours to spend together. In other words, his hobby of Bird Photography has strengthened the family bond.

Dr. Pankaj Maheria is not only known as a Doctor/ Medical Professor but also as one of the well known Bird Photographers of India. His photographs are being selected by different bird Photography sites like Oriental Bird Club, India Nature Watch, and Birderz. WWF India has selected few photographs of Dr. Pankaj Maheria to print on Flash Cards for study material. And Hong Kong Bird Watching Society (HKBWS) has selected more than 20 photographs of Dr. Pankaj to print on Birds Study related books and Guides. His photographs have been used to create Birding Apps for Android mobile phones. The Tale of Grit is – Preserving the hobby of Bird Photography has created a different persona of Dr. Pankaj Maheria

Dr. Pankaj Maheria is a person of his own choices. His choices and priorities have made him successful & happy person for his work and family life. While chatting with Dr. Pankaj Maheria, once he said, “Each one of us is spending time on the activities as per our own priority list. And for me my family always comes first.” It’s not just about feeling or thinking to create a Successful Happily Balanced work & family life. Dr. Pankaj Maheria is living such wonderful & inspiring life... ad

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Lord Krishna is the ultimate…

Source of the Universe… Mechanism of the Time…
Shape of the Water… Route of the Light…
Strength of the Wind… Spark of the Lightning…
Beauty of the Nature… Aroma of the Flower…
Rhythm of the Music… Form of the Dance…
Root of the Life… Spirit of the Love…
Power of the Courage… Soul of the Happiness…
Purity of the Truth… Gift of the Hope…
Cuteness of the Child… Heart of the Smile…
Story of the Existence… Author of the Destiny…
Creator of the Heartbeat… Price of the Simplicity…
Color of the Peace… Key of the Kindness…
Way to the Self… & an End of the Path… ad

JAI SHREE KRISHNA !!!

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Are you frustrated for anything in your life? If ‘Yes’, then it is a good sign for you. Believe me; yeah… it is a Good Sign. It shows that you are going through some trouble right now. It implies that you are actually striving to come out and not just being quiet with that awkward situation. It proves that you are looking for a better way to beat the frustrating situation anyhow. It is the high time to think and decide for your next step towards Positivity. Below are the few steps which will help to beat the frustration.

1. Ask yourself:

Ask yourself a few questions… Why you have been stuck with that frustrated situation? Why have you been suffering till date and for what reason? Does your suffering, giving you any fruitful outcome? Or you are continuing just because everyone else is doing that way? And now give a thought on the first answers you are getting from your own soul. Again also give a thought on your behavior while you are suffering from the inside frustration towards your circumstances. Have you watched yourself while suffering how much negativity is being spread by you? And do you want to live in this world of negativity forever? ‘No’ is the answer right?!!! Actually, this is the time to take the ultimate decision.

2. Be brave and decide:

This is the time take the brave step to come out of that frustration. We have been given this life just for once. No one knows whether we have another life or not. And even if we do have next one, then also why we should waste this life just being in that unbearable situation?!!! We are here to Be Happy. We are here to make other’s happy and if we are going to keep sticking in that frustrated situation, then there is no future for our better life.

To come out from this frustration you’ll have to take the bold, effective and ultimate decision. Take the appropriate decision to bring a positive change. A positive change for which you know is going to make you and other’s happy in the end. Well, every change is difficult in the first level. After a few times, you may also get shivers for the decision that you shouldn’t have taken. But don’t listen to that depressive feeling. It’s just that inner negativity which is stopping you achieving your best level. And this is the time to focus on the end result and the struggle to find out the correct way to finish that frustration.

3. Accept, Keep Calm & Be Grateful:

In the process of coming out from the frustration first of all accept the situation and the people as they are. And to proceed in the way to Positivity don’t forget to keep control on your anger & anxiety and also stop criticizing the surroundings and the people. Because anger can bring you back on the initial stage where you have started from and criticizing is just a waste of time and your own energy. Start being grateful for the things you already have. Change in your own behavior is the first key to move towards Positivity. When you have already started working on your transformation than be honest to yourself and positive towards your goal.

4. Be Firm to the decision:

Once you have started to work on your behavior & final decision towards the positive change, you’ll be able to see the different paths for which you haven’t even thought of. The life will start to open up the events for which you have dreamed of!! Hey, but wait… this stage is even more difficult to sustain. And at this moment be strong enough to stick to your decision and don’t get distracted through the colors which your positive change has brought to you. This change might be a further step towards your end goal, but remember it is not the end. In your own life and for your own sake, get attached to your decision and keep continue working hard on it.

5. Get frustrated by achievement:

By sustaining towards your goal and struggling for it, and being positive towards your decision to come out of that frustration, you’ll undoubtedly achieve what you have actually desired for. And when you attain the point of achievement; remind yourself those feelings of frustration and be grateful for that uncertain situation. Without that frustration you would not have reached the stage where you are right now. And after reaching to the peak of your desired goal, don’t forget that any path towards success never ends. At the last stage of one point is always a first point to another. After accomplishment of one success don’t forget to get frustrated with that achievement and set another target for self. And start to work on it… ad

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