Every year
I plan a trip with family for at least one week. I have always enjoyed togetherness,
beautiful views and leisure time during my all past trips. All those times have
become beautiful memories for lifetime when I had spent time with the people I love
to be with. But my recent trip was quite different from the earlier ones. Of
course it was a wonderful time spent with family but that included some
adventures activities. I know there are much more adventurous & dangerous
task people attend in compare to which I call adventure for myself; but for me
that was the first attempt and amazing experience of doing something different.
Something kind of which I had never tried in my life. I had enjoyed Scuba
Diving and most of the sea water rides which includes Parasailing too. With the
wonderful memories this trip has left me with few learning for the life time.
The obstacle was fear and not my potential. – I had not tried such adventures in the
past because I was fearful. I have never been a sports person because I was having
fear of attempting failure.
The period of being fearful had started from
the second I took decision to do something different till the second I
attempted it. – It was
preplanned that we’ll drive from Pune to Goa by road and experience the Scuba
Diving at Malvan Beach in between. The day I decided to experience the life of underwater,
I started being fearful. I was having fear of losing family, fear of losing
life and fear of failure.
Surround yourself with the bold ones who can help
building your courage & give fruitful advises. – From Malvan Beach through boat we reached
Sindhudurg point for Scuba Diving. My elder sister who is having experience of
Scuba Diving in the past, advised me to attempt
it first. So I don’t get scared because of the other’s fearful attempts. I
took her advice and got ready for my first underwater experience.
Fear vanishes on attempt of the task like a
Magic. – The moment I moved
underwater holding the steps of the boat and took my first breath from oxygen
bottle, I forgot about the fear and the world around me was completely
different. The first view of that different world of underwater gave me
strength to leave the steps and enjoy the upcoming moments.
In a different phase of life never forget
your basics. – It was for
the first time I was experiencing being underwater. I was so fascinated to see
the corals and beautiful fishes. By mistake I loosened the mouth-grip for my oxygen
bottle and drank some amount of water.
Be ready for uncertainty and always keep
faith alive. – After
drinking some amount of sea water I controlled my breathing till I came upside.
May be the practice of doing Pranayam
helped me that time. Mr. Yogesh the instructor, diver and savior took immediate
action after getting my signal and got me upside. Every time you can’t control everything.
You need to rely on some system, some people and some situations. You need to
trust an unknown person and that unknown person can really take very good care
of your life. I’m so grateful to Mr. Yogesh who saved me once and showed the
other beautiful world underwater.
Keep breathing is most important for life. – Underwater you become aware for your each
breath and can feel importance of breathing which normally we don’t feel in the
air.
After giving attempt to the task all the complexities
becomes weightless. – Before
attempting the Scuba diving the divers kept some weight on my body to keep me stable
underwater and there was also some weight of oxygen bottle. But once I reached
underwater there was no feeling of extra weight on my body. In fact my body
felt weightless.
For fulfillment - Live in the moment. – I have loved being underwater a lot. I had
forgotten my fear, my family and the world upside the water. I tried a lot to
hold at least one of the fishes for a second but could only touch a few. But it
was great feeling to touch the softness of fishes and hardness of corals which
kept me stable.
Attempt of fear is courageous & the outcome
is incredible. – I could
feel amazing for my first attempt of Scuba diving just because I was fearful at
the beginning. And I’m grateful to God for making me courageous, so I could
stick to decision of doing something different for my life.
Accompanying someone you love is always a treasure
of Joy. – After finishing
Scuba Diving we moved to Goa. My husband wanted me to go with him in Parasailing
which I didn’t think of. But thanks to my husband I could experience flying for
2-3 minutes. I wish we could have been in the air for some more time.
All these
learning I got through being underwater & flying are wonderful experiences
which I wanted to live again & again; I hope with some more courageous
levels and with some more exciting results… ad
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