What a Woman Wants…

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“No one understands my silence and when I speak my heart loud, it feels annoyed, ignored and worthless…. It feels likes no one really cares… No one really loves…. No one seems to be the correct… I’m being far away from everyone I know… Nothing is really good and nothing seems to be true… Nothing really matters … I’m being feeling less… Everything in the outer world seems to be normal but I know it’s robotic from my side… In my inner world there is no voice, no light, no fight, no smiles, no tears, no colors and not any fruitful way… And I’m all alone in this silent darkness of my innermost world….” These are the thoughts a woman has!

And that doesn’t make any difference with the status she carries like single, in relationship, engaged, married, or even available. What matters is how frequent such thought comes to her mind. And being in such a hell of her inner world if you ask her about her life, she can give a beautiful smile and reply ‘Perfect’! Yes she can lie even if looking at your eyes because she knows you’ve never tried to check her inner beauty, her innermost world ever! You’ve never gone beyond her body.

Women are suffering from the culture, religion and society made by Men from centuries. And at certain level it’s still continued everywhere in the world! And that’s why this term called ‘Women Empowerment’ is trending all over. But a woman DOES NOT take this change called ‘Empowerment’ as a comparison or a competition or revenge against Men or Manhood.

I strongly believe a woman doesn’t need an empowerment because she knows she is the one who crafts the power. She doesn’t need and not even seeking men’s acceptance because she is still struggling to accept herself, her needs and her role being a human. She doesn’t want to become like a man in any ways because she knows she is courageous, gentle and gorgeous in her own unique way. Well my purpose to write a blog on ‘What a Woman wants…” is not only for a Man to value her Woman. There are huge numbers of Women also who need to value first themselves and then the other woman.

This is for the ones who really believe in ‘Equality’ and understand that to bring equality to this world, ‘Rising of a woman’ is needed. This is for the ones who want to ‘Save the Humanity’ because biologically only a woman can bring new life on earth. And the way she thinks and believes about herself she’ll create and nurture the upcoming generation so. This is for the ones who want to bring a ‘Positive Change’ as a Human with awareness.

If you really want to know ‘What a woman wants…’ ask yourself first. You already know that! It’s the same thing what you want for yourself because you’ve been created only from a merger of a Woman and a Man. So, half of your own being is also a Woman even if you are physically a Man. And if you cannot get the answer from yourself just ‘Watch’ and ‘Listen’ and ‘Tender’ the woman of your house. The healthiness of your house is clearly depends on how women of your house is feeling!

In clear words the answer to the question ‘What a woman wants…’ is - She wants ‘Absolute Freedom’ to be herself. She ‘can’, she ‘has’ and she ‘will’ achieve that freedom on her own. But if you really want to contribute towards ‘Rising of a woman’ you can ‘help’ her in getting freedom through many ways.
  • Understand this fact clearly - She is not an ‘Object’ of a man’s pleasure and not even a ‘Machine’ of reproduction. Change your perception. She is much more than you even can think of…
  • Help her to be free from the way you ‘Look’ at her. Not with the Lust and not even with the Pity. Stop even imaging…
  • Help her to be free from the ‘Judgments’ and ‘Advises’ right from the age of your daughter to your grandmother. About her virginity, about carrying a child, about becoming a mother, about working late night, about partying out with friends, about wearing clothes and about her smile…
  • Help her to be free from all the ‘Customs and Rituals’. She doesn’t believe in those so-called regional, cultural and social ‘Restrictions’. Give her a break…
  • To produce or not to produce a life through her body is her own choice. Anyways the earth is over burdened by human population. Don’t make her ‘Emotional Fool’
  • Biologically, she can & may give birth to a new life but you must know that motherhood is completely different concept and it’s not her responsibility. ‘Motherhood’ can be performed by anyone! Seriously anyone…
  • Help her to be free from all ‘Household’ responsibilities. It’s not only her duty to keep up it perfectly. You can always share her responsibilities. It’s not a big deal…
  • Stop her becoming the one which she is not by dragging her into your own mood. Listen to her cautiously. Don’t make her say lie. Let her ‘Heart’ rule her fortune…
  • She is not your possession. Stop reducing to her a thing and binding her to different kinds of bondage. That will only destroy her love towards you.
  • She can multitask but don’t expect perfection in each aspect. Don’t take her for granted. Always ‘Be a part’ of her happiness and sadness both…
  • She also has some physical desires like a man has. That doesn’t make any difference in her ‘Character’
  • She discovers the changes in her body at some phases of her life. And she always expresses them by one or the other way. Treat her with compassion and don’t let her feel shy for that…
  • She is the ocean of love and can fill the world with joy and bliss. But that depends on how much she ‘Respects’ herself and the people of her surroundings! Earn her respect. That’s the only foundation of her true love…
  • She is mysterious and loves her 'Aloneness' to rejoice her feminine qualities! Give her sometime on daily basis to keep a space from everything and everyone…

Remember this - She is beautiful, charming, courageous, generous, sensitive, sincere and responsible ‘Altogether’. Trust her qualities and she’ll prove all correct… ad

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Your Friend Always…
Amee Darji

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