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"Before I Die I want to _____."

A few days ago I had asked everyone in my contact to complete the above statement for their own life. And believe me I got the tremendous reverts - Travel the World, Adventures, Fulfill all the dreams and Achievements in different areas of life - were the most reverts (I am so happy for you Guys and all the very best!). But there are few reverts which needs a special attention.

Some Tech-savvy persons wants - To get invisible, To get a time machine, To re-live some special moments and To live the moments from the past where they were not the part of it". (Interesting!)

Some of the Young at heart people wants – To be young forever and Relive the youthful days. (Good! Keep it up!)

Some of Learners wants - To learn languages like Sanskrit & Sign-language and Read a holy book like ‘Bhagwad Geeta’. (Great! Learning is a lifelong process.)

There was one Cool person also who wants - To live life as it is. (Bingo!)

Some of the Kind hearts wants – To teach the poor children and Work for NGO. (I’m so grateful to you all!)

There are some Lovely people too who wants - To tell their special ones those magical words – ‘I Love You’ (Yeah! We all should say those words everyday to our special ones! ‘Love’ is the only power which creates the Miracles…)

There are few Wise people also who wants - To see more green and less plastic on the earth. (I agree. Nowadays it has become the global need and we all must work on that…)

There is one intellectual person who wants - To make common sense ‘Common’. (And yes there is scarcity of 'Common Sense'. We need to get much more smart and active.)

But I'm feeling glad that I'm in contact with those people too, who just replied "Live". (I wish every one of us remember to ‘Live’ ... to live in the moment... to live each moment at its fullest…)

And last but not the least one person wants – To take Diksha! (This revert is from a person who doesn't look or behave Spiritual! Hey friend, your revert reminds me of travelling the inner world and I would love to work on that path… It starts with the darkness and I’m still in the darkness …)

Huh! ... All these reverts shows that people plan for their life in advance. No one is aware what's going to happen in the next moment but still we don't leave the ‘Hope’ and we plan our days, travels, careers, old age, emergencies and Death too! What? You mean, you haven’t planned for the death? Think again ...

We all have our medical, travel, accident, life and kinds of insurances. That’s a planning for the truth of the end of this body by one or the other way. And we don't know when that last moment will be in front of us. It might be the next one... (Sorry! for saying that …)

So we already have plans for our life and death. But sometimes miracles happen and we live better than we have planned for and sometimes it’s just reverse. We always change our plans according to winding we may face. So, in every fortune or uncertainty we’ll have to keep ourselves and our family ready.

For example, No one plans for going into a Coma or a brain death or an incurable disease or might be curable but not affordable illness or such surgeries after which we might be unable to live as before. And in almost all such cases our family takes decisions on behalf of us while we were complete unconscious.

We don't discuss in prior for such uncertainty, and that's the reason we create a high mental and financial pressure on our own family to take decision for our life. In both the ways whatever decision they take for us, we make them feel guilty for taking such decision.

So better you decide on your own about what you want to do in such circumstances - To live with the help of the machines or just go away with the amount of life you have lived! Think about it deeply, you might have attained some of your wants and many of them might be still pending! Discuss with your family about such uncertainty and leave a clear ‘Disclaimer’ for your own life. In that case your own family will be clear about taking decision and will be able to live without any guilt and moreover that you’ll not curse your own family for taking decision on your behalf.

So my dear friends just add such disclaimer like - 'Before I Die I want to make clear to my family that I want / don’t want to live with the help of Machines. I want / don’t want my family to take financial risks to keep me alive. I want / don’t want to live after serious medical surgery where I may not live as before. I want / don't want to donate my organs. ' Be practical and strong enough to decide such things and most importantly make aware your friends and family about it.

And for the rest of the plans of life, we all are aware that - we have to start living in the moment, make ourselves better than before, work harder, forget and forgive each other, be more kind and calm, feel the pain of the other and ‘Be The Love’ ... but only awareness doesn't work on its own, we'll have keep going till the end ... ad

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PS: Few of my contacts were curious to know about my answer of ‘Before I Die I want to’ statement. Here it is for them and I’m so Sorry in advance for being so selfish. Before I Die I want to meet that Supreme Power who has created this Existence… ad 

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Rhyme on Mother

She takes care of me and keeps house neatly...
She dance and plays with me Sweetly...

When I do bad things she gets so Angry...
But I know she loves me very Deeply...

She cooks Bhindi and Laddu so Yummy...
She helps a lot in my Study...

She is very nice and she is very Funny...
My name is ______ and she is my Mummy ... ad

Rhyme on Bhagatsinh


तीखी थी उनकी कलम की धार,
और सलाखों में उन्होंने की भूख हड़ताल...

फांसी चढ़ न्योछावर किया अपना यौवन,
और मौत को बनाया अपनी दुल्हन...

सरफ़रोशी की तमन्ना दिलमें रखकर चल पड़े,
अपने वतन की आज़ादी के लिए क्रांतिवीर बन गए...

लहू के हर क़तरेमे था उनके इन्क़लाब,
ज़िंदगी अपने दम पर जीना सीखा गए ये जनाब...

वीररस से भरे हुए है, यह स्वातंत्र्य सैनानी,
कभी नहीं भूलेंगे हम भगतसिंह की क़ुरबानी... ad


Rhyme on Eagle (गरुड़ )


मैं हूँ गरुड़, मैं हूँ गरुड़; पक्षीओ का राजा मैं गरुड़...

उंचाइओ से नहीं मैं डरता, तूफानी हवाओं से में खेलता...
मैं हूँ गरुड़, मैं हूँ गरुड़; बहादुरी की मिसाल मैं गरुड़...

तेज़ नज़र से दूर तक देखता, एक झपट में पंजोसे पकड़ता...
मैं हूँ गरुड़, मैं हूँ गरुड़; स्वयं शिकार करता मैं गरुड़....

रावण से मैंने की थी लड़ाई, सीता को बचाने जान गवाई...
मैं हूँ गरुड़, मैं हूँ गरुड़; रामजी का प्यारा गरुड़...

साहस और शक्ति का प्रतिक, ध्यान और मेहनत मेरी सीख...
मैं हूँ गरुड़, मैं हूँ गरुड़; विष्णु का वाहन मैं गरुड़...

मैं हूँ गरुड़, मैं हूँ गरुड़; पक्षीओ का राजा मैं गरुड़... ad


Rhyme on Ice-cream


When you want to feel Happy,
You can have fresh Strawberry...

When you want to get Combo,
You can have Vanilla and Mango...

When you want to make a Team,
You can have Cookie Cream....

When you want to bring a Smile,
You can have Pista Malai...

When you want to Celebrate,
You can have Yummy Chocolate...

When you want to have Fun for sure,
You can have Ice-cream of Havmor... ad


Rhyme on Frog


This is a frog and his name is Sunny,
This is his brother and his name is Bunny...

Sunny and Bunny always play together,
Jumping here and jumping there...

Once Sunny jumped and broke a toy,
It made the Bunny very annoy...

Bunnny hit the Sunny and started fight,
Both had cried till the night...

Hitting is a bad thing Mumma said,
Say 'Sorry' when you make a mistake...

Sunny and Bunny both said sorry,
And started playing without any worry...

Don't forget this Sunny and Bunny,
My name is ______ and it is my Frog Story... ad


Rhyme on Sky (आसमान)


देखो आसमान यह बड़ा निराला,
सुरजकी किरनो से है उजाला...

नील रंग की चादर है बिछाई,
जगमग तारों से है सजाई...

शीतल हवामे उड़ती पतंगे,
बादलोंसे बनती है बुँदे...

नाचते-गाते कहते पंछी,
आसमान की बातें सबसे अच्छी... ad

Rhyme on Healthy Vs Junk


Fruits and Vegetables will keep you Healthy,
Pizza and Burger will keep you Bulky.

Milk and Juice will give you power,
Cake and Cola will give you sugar.

Healthy food will build your brain,
Junk food will give you strain.

Avoid Junk food and don't be seek,
Healthy food will keep you fit ... ad


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A boy was reading a book. He saw a picture of a camel. And according to the boy, that camel was smiling! He ran with the book to his mother and showed her that Smiling Camel’s picture.

Boy: “See Mumma, this picture of a camel. “
Mother: “Yeah let me see.”
Boy: “Don’t you think it’s a Smiling Camel?”
Mother: “Yes you are right. This camel seems to be happy.”
Boy: “One day I had seen one camel sitting on the roadside. But that camel was very sad... “
Mother: “Ohh! But why you felt it was sad? “
Boy: “These much big rope was passed through its nose!” He showed the size of the rope with his little fingers. “And that rope was connected to the cart... “
After a pause he continued…
“If somebody passes that much big rope through our nose .... Are we going to feel happy?”
Mother: “No Beta, no one gonna feel happy like this... “
Boy: “But why people do this to the animals? I have seen such rope used with horses and bullocks too!”
Mother: “People do this with animals to control them & train them to work for them.”
Boy: “They should use some mask and make animals wear it instead of passing the rope through the nose! At least it’ll not hurt them.”
Mother:”Yeah. You are absolutely right Beta...”

I felt good about my child that he can understand the emotions of the other and can feel the pain - the other might have suffered. I could see it while he was expressing his feelings. He was able to differentiate the happiness and sadness between two camels.  

Nowadays, as my son has suggested, the Face Harness is available for the animals. The option of online shopping for Harness is also available. I ask all of you to please suggest Face Harness option to the animal owner when you see any nose roped animal. Please feel the pain of an animal and don’t forget to share. It might be possible the owner of the animal isn’t aware.

Well this discussion made me think about the human nature. We, so called humans not only try to control the animals but sometimes the other humans too. The virtual nose rope is applied here! Ask the same question before being harsh to the other “If somebody passes that much big rope through our nose .... Are we going to feel happy?”

Understand the pain you pass through your harsh behavior, words and acts. After certain level regrets of the past doesn’t work to improve the healthiness in the relationships. So it’s the time become proactive. To think before we say or react. Any situation or relation can be well maintained with positive emotions and understanding the pain of the other.

A change in our own behavior will make the difference in the smiles people give us in reply. We’ll be able to feel the ripples of the happiness initiated in the pond of life. And that will be perfect picture of life similar to this Smiling Camel… ad

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Yesterday I had visited a nursery, nearby my house. I wanted to get some saplings for my home. I met the person who was handling the nursery and inquired about few specific saplings but don’t know why he didn’t seem in mood to serve a customer. So I had to look for the other one.

A few kilometers away I found another nursery; and the owner was an Old Man. Again, I inquired about specific saplings which I needed and that Old Man replied calmly. That Old Man displayed and picked the best saplings for me. In fact, I also got an extra plant which I had not planned to buy.

When I was done with my plants need it was time to calculate the total price. I had to help that Old Man in calculating the total price. It was Rs. 320 only. I was having the change of Rs. 320, so I offered him the money and requested him to get arranged all those saplings on my scooter. At that time he didn’t took money and got busy in finding a big bag to carry.

After that, with due care he kept all the saplings in that bag. He didn’t allow me to help him in keeping those saplings in the bag! Like it was his duty and he wanted to do it with full dedication! Once he kept all the saplings in the bag, again I offered him that money which I was holding for him. And his answer touched my heart. That old man said, “I’ll take money only after I’ll finish my work!”

He carried that bag of saplings and arranged it perfectly on my scooter.  So on the way back home I didn’t get troubled and most importantly his saplings which he had nurtured carefully were in the best condition till the end! After finishing all his duties, he took the money and smiled! This whole experience made me the permanent customer of that Old Man even though his nursery is far from my house!

This is an example of delivering beyond the limit. As a customer I was not only satisfied but over whelmed. The product was well created and nicely taken care of! The dealing with the customer was calm and with the approach to offer best services. The price was reasonable. The packaging didn’t harm the product. It made so comfortable to travel along with the product even on the scooter. And most importantly the dedication and hard work of that Old Man towards his work responsibilities was commendable! And the smile was the cherry on the top!

If an Old Man (who was illiterate) can set the example of calmness, work responsibility, hard work, dedication and customer care that too with the smile on face; definitely we all should and can… ad

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PS: In the past I had kept a Gardner to take care of my plants but yesterday I planted all those saplings on my own. And trust me it felt so good like I had visited seashore or been on the top of a mountain. Yesterday I understood planting on our own can also be a way to get connected to the nature! The feeling was awesome. I’m so grateful to God… ad



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તહેવારોમાં ઘરની સફાઈ થાય છે, અંતરની નહિ;
ક્યારેક તો પોતાના 'ભૂતકાળની ભૂલો' ને ખંચેરી જુઓ...
ભેટ-સોગાદમાં વસ્તુઓ અપાય છે, ખુશીઓ નહિ;
ક્યારેક તો કોઈપણ વિક્ષેપ વગર 'સંગાથની ક્ષણ' માણી જુઓ...

The house gets cleaned during festivals, not the Heart;
sometimes wipe off your own 'Past Mistakes'...
The things are given as gifts, not the Happiness;
sometimes enjoy the 'Moment of Togetherness' without any distraction...

અંધકારને પ્રકાશના સહારા ની જરૂર છે, સત્યને નહિ;
ક્યારેક તો હારતાં પહેલાં 'ધીરજના તડકે' શેકાઈ જુઓ...
શિક્ષણ નિયમોનું અપાય છે, સામર્થ્યનું નહિ;
ક્યારેક તો ડૂબતાંને 'ક્ષમતાનો પાઠ' ભણાવી જુઓ...

The darkness is in need of the light, not the Truth;
sometimes get burned with the 'Sunshine of Patience' before accepting failure...
The education is provided for the rules, not the Strength;
sometimes teach the 'Lesson of Capability' to the drowning...

અધિકાર વાણીનો મળે છે, અપમાનનો નહિ;
ક્યારેક તો ઉચ્ચારતાં પહેલાં 'શબ્દો ના મૂલ્ય' ને તપાસી જુઓ...
પુરાવા ઘટાનાઓ ના મળે છે, પ્રેમ ના નહિ;
ક્યારેક તો 'શબ્દો વિનાંની ભાષા' સમજી જુઓ...

The rights have been given for the speech, not to Insult;
sometimes check the 'Worth of the Words' before uttering...
The evidence is found for an incident, not for Love;
sometimes understand the 'Language used without Words'...

ઓળખ સંબંધોની હોય છે, લાગણીઓ ની નહિ;
ક્યારેક તો અજાણ્યાની સામે 'હસી' ને જુઓ...
માણસ વૃક્ષોને કાપે છે, અહંકારને નહિ;
ક્યારેક તો 'સમાધાનનું બીજ' રોપી જુઓ...

The known are the relations, not the Feelings;
sometimes give a 'Smile' to the unknown...
The human cuts the trees, not the Self pride;
sometimes plant the 'Seed of Solution'...

ખુલાસા રહસ્યોના થાય છે, ઉદારતાનાં નહિ;
ક્યારેક તો મૌન રહી ને 'મદદ' આપી જુઓ...
મહત્વ વરસાદનું છે, વાદળની ગર્જનાઓ નું નહિ;
ક્યારેક તો અપેક્ષાનો બાંધ બાંધ્યા વગર 'અમી ઝરણું' વરસાવી જુઓ...

The clarifications are made for secrets, not for Compassion;
sometimes 'Help' just being silent...
The worth is the Rain, not the thunder of clouds;
sometimes shower the 'Stream of Sweetness' without building a block of expectation...

સર્જન શૂન્યમાંથી થાય છે, દિશાઓ થી નહિ;
ક્યારેક તો અંત જાણ્યા વગર 'સફર' કરી જુઓ...
પારખવાં રત્નોને પડે છે, પરમાત્માને નહિ;
ક્યારેક તો માંગ્યા વગર 'આભાર' માની જુઓ... ad

The creation occurs from Nonexistence, not from the directions;
sometimes 'Travel' without knowing the destination...
The gems are needed to get scrutinized; not the God;
sometimes 'Be Grateful' without the demands... ad

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