“He is not
talking to anyone; I think he is engaged in some mischief. I don’t believe him
at all.”
“I saw both
my neighbors talking yesterday and I doubt they must be talking about me only.”
“That group
is being united to be part of a charity, but I think there is some uncertainty
in their activities.”
“That
person smiles at my spouse everyday and I can’t trust that one anymore.”
“That lady
talks very nicely with everyone and I feel something suspicious about her
character."
Do you find
these statements familiar?
You might
have said such statements and if not said than such thoughts might have come to
your head. These thoughts of Skepticism started from ‘I doubt’ can create a
very huge problem without having any strong evidence. And if doesn’t create an
epic than definitely can disturb your own mind and surroundings.
Why only ‘I
doubt’, ‘I don’t believe’, & ‘I can’t trust’ - such statements are
concerning to others only? And why can’t for our own? Why no one is being skeptical of self?
But why
someone would doubt his / her own? Because everyone finds himself / herself
perfect as per their own mindset and with their own clarifications. Everyone
can make self comfortable in any situation, because they will have one or other
reason for their own behavior or failure. They can find so many reasons /
persons to blame or doubt in their own life!!! True??
Hey! Wait
for a while…
Think for
yourself today… spend some time for self and see yourself like you are watching
or judging the others… Do you really
find yourself as perfect as you believe? I guess ‘NO’… There might be so
many goals which you should have achieved but didn’t yet. There might be so
many things which you should have said but didn’t yet. You might be over loaded
with the past memories which you should have forgiven and lightened yourself
but you still carrying that load. And instead of working on your own you have
made busy yourself in observing and judging others.
Then why
are you wasting your own time and energy in watching and judging others and
creating GIANT issues just because of your habit of skepticism!!! And if you really want to doubt someone, that
too on DAILY basis; then there is only one person in the world is YOU…
Ask
yourself why can’t I get up early?
Why can’t I
complete this project on time?
Why can’t I
exercise every day?
Why can’t I
control my anger?
Why can’t I
stop smoking / drinking?
And so on…
Once you’ll start having the habit of skepticism for your own, you’ll not have
any time to doubt others.
Doubt your limits, doubt your behavior, doubt
your capabilities, doubt your habits, and doubt your own strength… Everyday try
to make yourself BETTER by having a habit of ‘Skepticism for SELF’ and not for
others…
I hope
you’ll start the habit of ‘Skepticism
for Self’ from today onward and pray for me, that I’ll continue this habit
forever… and if you already have such habit for so long then, please go ahead
and keep inspiring others… ad
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much Dear Reader, for spending your valuable time. Please Share this post to
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Always…
Amee Darji
Nice thought Amee.. Sometime it good to doubt on yourself.. I used to do also.. it helps to change your thinking and behavior...
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