Are you
perplexing?!!!…
Yeah, it
was a mistake; I haven’t done it deliberately but…
I know
whatever happens to me is wrong but…
I am aware
about the mischief done by my friend, but…
I know my
family is suffering because of my silly mistake but…
It is over now,
but it was really a BIG thing; I shouldn’t have done it but…
Are you
getting perplexed by such thoughts?!!!
If such
thoughts, deeds, mischief, ignorance and confusion are still disturbing you…
than it must have made a change in your behavior. You might be working so hard
to keep the things look normal and behave as nothing has happened to you… but
remember somewhere; someone is observing you and noticing the change in your
behavior, the change in your habits, and the change in your identity. And that
someone is no one… but your own dear & near one.
“But it was
a mistake…” you might want to defeat with; but to keep SILENCE for the mistake might be considered as an OFFENSE.
So this is the time to confess… this is the time to break the silence and speak
the TRUTH… Truth is like a STAR; it may
hide on a cloudy night but it will SHINE forever.
You might
be thinking that you shouldn’t admit the blunder happened, because you’re near
one and family will get hurt; of course they’ll get hurt, but with the
satisfaction that you have been HONEST to them and told the TRUTH before the
situation get worse. Just think, this twice, what if the bitter truth will come
in front them the other way round; then you’ll hurt them twice because you
haven’t trusted them to share your WORRIES and decided to be in the worst
situation ALONE!!!
I
understand you can’t share your life’s each & every secret with each ‘so
called friend’ or ‘so called family’. But there might be someone in your life,
someone in your family, someone genuine you know, someone you could trust… who
is wise enough to understand your situation… who is caring and loving enough to
advise you correctly… who is mature enough to guard you… In the beginning they
might get mad on you but they also can demonstrate the correct way to move
ahead. After admitting the truth to a
wise; at least you’ll have someone to walk with you in your struggle to come
out from that blunder. And you never know, sometimes after admitting the
mistake; you may get honored for the integrity you showed for your relation.
Yeah, I
know what you are thinking now… You may lose the relation, the work, the opportunity
by admitting the blunder… You may get punished or discarded… You may get the
worst result which you haven’t even thought!!!
But remember whatever will happen, by
admitting the TRUTH you’ll never lose the self-confidence. In fact, you’ll build
it STRONGER. You will be having an opportunity to prove yourself, your
loved ones and your surroundings; that you were wrong once, but now you are the
MOST loyal & brave one they can have!!!
To prove self Trustworthy, that too after
attending & accepting a mistake is TOUGH task; but it is the part of
BRAVERY. And being brave enough to admit the truth is
the only way to have long lasting PEACE of heart… So don’t be a coward…
just say it… believe me, they are your own loved ones, your own family and they
love you the most. They might not say it each and every day, but they do LOVE
you a lot… they will understand… if not today, then surely ‘One day’… whenever
they’ll find a POSITIVE change in you… and they will accept you forever with
the whole heart and lots of proud… CONFESS
and get the peace and strength to TURN the page of your LIFE…
If anyone
from your family or your near one; is accepting the mistake… if that one is
choosing you as a guide… listen carefully… don’t get upset… don’t get angry…
it’s time to understand, to evaluate, to be positive and to become a backbone.
When someone is taking a blind LEAP of FAITH
by confessing; it’s your DUTY to HOLD them tight and LEAD them in a CORRECT
way. This is the time you
can become an ENERGIZER to the one, whom you care and love a lot… This is the
time to FORGIVE and correct the situation… Only
a WISE person can collect the broken pieces and turn it BREATHING again…
please BE WISE… ad
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