PERPLEXING

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Are you perplexing?!!!…

Yeah, it was a mistake; I haven’t done it deliberately but…
I know whatever happens to me is wrong but…
I am aware about the mischief done by my friend, but…
I know my family is suffering because of my silly mistake but…
It is over now, but it was really a BIG thing; I shouldn’t have done it but…

Are you getting perplexed by such thoughts?!!!

If such thoughts, deeds, mischief, ignorance and confusion are still disturbing you… than it must have made a change in your behavior. You might be working so hard to keep the things look normal and behave as nothing has happened to you… but remember somewhere; someone is observing you and noticing the change in your behavior, the change in your habits, and the change in your identity. And that someone is no one… but your own dear & near one.

“But it was a mistake…” you might want to defeat with; but to keep SILENCE for the mistake might be considered as an OFFENSE. So this is the time to confess… this is the time to break the silence and speak the TRUTH… Truth is like a STAR; it may hide on a cloudy night but it will SHINE forever.

You might be thinking that you shouldn’t admit the blunder happened, because you’re near one and family will get hurt; of course they’ll get hurt, but with the satisfaction that you have been HONEST to them and told the TRUTH before the situation get worse. Just think, this twice, what if the bitter truth will come in front them the other way round; then you’ll hurt them twice because you haven’t trusted them to share your WORRIES and decided to be in the worst situation ALONE!!!

I understand you can’t share your life’s each & every secret with each ‘so called friend’ or ‘so called family’. But there might be someone in your life, someone in your family, someone genuine you know, someone you could trust… who is wise enough to understand your situation… who is caring and loving enough to advise you correctly… who is mature enough to guard you… In the beginning they might get mad on you but they also can demonstrate the correct way to move ahead. After admitting the truth to a wise; at least you’ll have someone to walk with you in your struggle to come out from that blunder. And you never know, sometimes after admitting the mistake; you may get honored for the integrity you showed for your relation.

Yeah, I know what you are thinking now… You may lose the relation, the work, the opportunity by admitting the blunder… You may get punished or discarded… You may get the worst result which you haven’t even thought!!!  But remember whatever will happen, by admitting the TRUTH you’ll never lose the self-confidence. In fact, you’ll build it STRONGER. You will be having an opportunity to prove yourself, your loved ones and your surroundings; that you were wrong once, but now you are the MOST loyal & brave one they can have!!!

To prove self Trustworthy, that too after attending & accepting a mistake is TOUGH task; but it is the part of BRAVERY. And being brave enough to admit the truth is the only way to have long lasting PEACE of heart… So don’t be a coward… just say it… believe me, they are your own loved ones, your own family and they love you the most. They might not say it each and every day, but they do LOVE you a lot… they will understand… if not today, then surely ‘One day’… whenever they’ll find a POSITIVE change in you… and they will accept you forever with the whole heart and lots of proud… CONFESS and get the peace and strength to TURN the page of your LIFE…

If anyone from your family or your near one; is accepting the mistake… if that one is choosing you as a guide… listen carefully… don’t get upset… don’t get angry… it’s time to understand, to evaluate, to be positive and to become a backbone.

When someone is taking a blind LEAP of FAITH by confessing; it’s your DUTY to HOLD them tight and LEAD them in a CORRECT way. This is the time you can become an ENERGIZER to the one, whom you care and love a lot… This is the time to FORGIVE and correct the situation… Only a WISE person can collect the broken pieces and turn it BREATHING again… please BE WISE… ad


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Your Friend Always…
Amee Darji

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